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Kitty's avatar

I ditched insta about 2 years & havent really looked back. Occasionally get pangs but when their new terms of service came in a few years ago I knew it was time to escape & so I did (but not before getting a zip file of my entire history & every photo sent to me - scary!) I’m on gab - that’s my indulgence & it’s more words & information than filters & fake. Keep up the writing ✍️ you do it well!!

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Kitty's avatar

I ditched insta about 2 years & havent really looked back. Occasionally get pangs but when their new terms of service came in a few years ago I knew it was time to escape & so I did (but not before getting a zip file of my entire history & every photo sent to me - scary!) I’m on gab - that’s my indulgence & it’s more words & information than filters & fake. Keep up the writing ✍️ you do it well!!

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Tatiana Gallardo's avatar

Thank you so for the support, Kitty. I really, really appreciate it!

(I also need to check out Gab ASAP. Sounds more up my alley)

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Carolyn C's avatar

Ugh, I totally have a "can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em" relationship with Instagram! And maybe Tik Tok too. But I appreciate the question of optimization. I am going to ponder how I might optimize...Thanks!

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Tatiana Gallardo's avatar

I am 100% with you on the can't live with/without.. we will find the right balance. Good luck with the optimization!

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Carly Joy's avatar

I loved reading this, and I relate to so much of what you said!

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Tatiana Gallardo's avatar

Carly, thank you so much! It seems like Instagram is in an intense relationship with all of us.. haha

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Diana Aguilera's avatar

Amazing!!! Seriously … you nailed it.. we all struggle and no one speaks about it. I just went back to the creepy Instagram as well… yes it’s crazy!!

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Anonymous's avatar

challenging myself to the 7 minute rule for 7 days. as always, thank you for your words.

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Tatiana Gallardo's avatar

What if we call it "The 7 Minute, 7 Day Challenge: Redefine Your Relationship with Instagram"? But in all seriousness, thank you turning my rule into a literal challenge, I love this so much

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Lauren's avatar

So good!! Read every word. Loved every word. It’s going to be an amazing year (in one big amazing adventure of a life)!

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Michelle Agaron's avatar

Tatiana, this was so beautifully written! I temporarily disabled my Instagram account at the beginning of this new year and it's been such a weird but relieving experience. The paragraph or two towards the end where you detail your reunion with Instagram made me tear up — now I'm wondering what my reunion will feel like once I return and how much will change on the platform. Can't wait to see more pieces from you :)

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Tatiana Gallardo's avatar

Thank you so much 💖 💖 I totally feel you on the weirdness and relief of walking away from Instagram. (Also, does this mean he's cheating on me?! Lolol)

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Shawn Mcdonald's avatar

I hate Instagram. It’s so much pressure. As an “older person” I always feel behind and not doing the right things with it. I also don’t have a lot of time and get angry when I waste it on Instagram. But… I stay connected with people from my past and I get to watch my students grow up!!

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